It’s not surprising, is it? Turn someone’s capacity to see and hear and feel and tell stories up to 11, and it’s easy for them to dial over into Overwhelm. The question is, what do you do next? For a poet, the answer may be: write about it.
ANXIETY (2014) Nothing is wrong. Dread quivers along my spine, shifts, stealthy, behind my eyes. Nothing is wrong, except my skin no longer fits; I need a different skin, a different spinal cord, a different story. Textile artist in Shanghai, copy-editor in London, harpsichordist in Cologne – I need someone else’s scraps to piece and shape, grammar to parse in someone else’s prose, the intricate surface, fingered over and over, of someone else’s counterpoint. Now, please. Someone else, and elsewhere. Now. Fist in my throat, its swallowed ache in the hollow behind my ribs; dear God, for a different skin. And nothing is wrong.
THINGS THAT ARE YELLOW (2024) Force of will has moved you out the door and down the sidewalk, down the quiet street, while all the time, unchosen, unexplained, a mute and clamoring dread is clamped around your shoulders, stiff in your hips, robbing each breath of half its air. A thing that should be simple, that was simple yesterday, today – again, again – is nearly more than you can bear; no knowing why, only the fear, the hopeless here we are again that wants to slam you to your knees here on the sidewalk. Then, from a familiar, half-forgotten corner of your mind, the quiet voice speaks up: Take a look around, what can you see that’s yellow? Come on, name them, make a list, things that are yellow. Go. Okay. The dandelions by this fence. The trim on that green house across the street. The letters on that bumper-sticker, and the flowers on this woman’s skirt. (Hello. Nice day.) The logo on that van, its parking lights. A bandanna knotted like a jaunty bow-tie on this young beagle’s harness. (Hi, good dog.) The painted hatchwork of the crosswalk – yes, and look, you made it to the corner, yellow light is turning red; stand still, breathe, look around. (Is that guy’s sweater…? No, more of an orange.) Your breaths grow deeper, shoulders drop and straighten; blue sky, black pavement, things that are yellow and a world of other colors in between, and here you are as well. Here you are. Green light. Keep going.
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For a long time I had other names for it. Once I understood what it was, I tried to downplay it, to laugh it off, to scold myself out of it. Oddly, it was the enormous external existential dread of the COVID pandemic shutdown that helped me come to terms with how much anxiety I’d lived with, for how long.
In the last eighteen months or so, as I have shifted my writing practice from Occasional to Imperfectly Regular, I have … not grown less anxious. Not even a little bit. But I have become a lot more tolerant of my anxiety, a lot more willing — when it’s one of those days — to give myself some grace and to do the things I know how to do to help myself. I’ve learned, really learned, to understand anxiety as the shadow-side of my capacity for awareness and imagination. Would I set aside my original superpower, to get rid of its shadow? Not a chance.
I love these poems so much, Elizabeth. I am so very glad to have met you here on Substack through bears. What a charmed thing. Thank you for what you’ve written here to accompany your poems. Tomorrow, when I go out, I’m going to look for yellow.
Willing to give yourself some grace... Yes, dear Elizabeth, grace! 💛